By Hafiz Asnawi
When we were young, we told ourselves we can be anything we want. Some wanted to be a pilot, a doctor or a soldier. But time flies. We keep forgetting our dreams. Let me ask you, why does this happen? It is because we do not have our mindset for our goals or life achievement. We just go with the flow of our thought and we do not plan ahead.
How to create a ‘mindset’?
To create a mindset, first thing to do is to find a reason why we have to do it and why we are doing it. Even there is answer like I dont know why. The answer of œI dont know is actually our inner feeling saying, œwhen I do this, things would be alright. That makes the reason unexplainable and we dont know what is the right word to put to explain to the other people.
Create a focus field
We learned many things in school, college, university and we cant stop learning because we are human beings and as a human beings, we have already made a sense of curiosity and made us sometimes confused with what we learned. To avoid that kind of situation, what we need is to focus on specific field. What are the focus fields? Focus field is something that we love to do, no matter how hard it is, we still want to do it. Slowly, we become very good at it. How to find it? Explore the world, and I recommend for all of us to do some fun and healthy activities with friends. Once you find it, keep it up!
Little things
What are the little things? It’s in your habits. Why I name it little things? Because for us, it is just a habit we look at it like œits okay, it wont hurt people. But for the other people, yes it does. At the outside world, not all people are like us and they are really easily annoyed to things that appear not normal to them.
In order to avoid uneasy environment, please look at your surrounding first. Hide or get rid your bad habit. Appear with full of confident, breast pump, chin up and smile. You might be asking, how these things become important? We are who we are. Yes, we are who we are, but sometimes we need to get rid of the sense of individuality and accept the society the way it is. Because if you dont, you might not get any friend or find an associate at a working environment.
As students, we have a lot of free time. It depends on how we manage it. The action we do or are doing it now will affect the way of our life in the future. Many people say, planning life is hard, and I dont know what Im doing right now, it is like there is nowhere to go. There is. Avoid people who make you feel useless. Be optimistic, and then love everything that you do if not, try to love it, think of the benefit of doing it.
Life is simple, keep moving forward. Youll find the way out of your tunnel.
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